Conversation between E. and I:

Me: they need fairy lights lol. white only works if they have fairy lights. black and fairy lights however just looks contrived
E: lol you're going to be so good at planning
Me: this is why i will turn into bridezilla
E: do i have to help or can i let you do all the work
Me: how do i put this delicately... you have to care enough to have an opinion. but if i disagree, i will veto your opinion lol